The 13 Rules for financial slaves, money cuckolds, and those wishing to earn their collar!

by

Goddess Bella Donna

 

These Rules are written in Stone, they are not up for negotiations. If you can not follow them, can not respect them and live by them, you are in the wrong place. Do not go further on this path! Either leave the website or simply act as a fetishist and join my membership site to find your stroke off desires without pretending to wish to serve.
Bluntly spoken, I have no time to argue with inferior submissives or guys pretending to be submissive without understanding what it takes to live that sort of lifestyle in service to ME!
Perhaps you are not looking for someone as demanding as myself or as protocol driven, in that case you wouldn't be happy serving me and I would quickly become disgusted with you. Not a good situation for either of us. We each have our own needs, requirements and ways of seeing things, that is why good matches are so very important. In the end I want both of us to be happy and satisfied in our D/s relationship with each other.
Those who are truly about worshiping me, will understand the need for those Rules and be honored to obey them.

#1: I require the utmost respect from you at all times.
If you do not even know how to address me correctly (either by my Name & the Title I have earned over my Years in the BDSM / Fetish Lifestyle - Goddess Bella Donna or Ma'am), you have no business even going further with me. I understand that MY BOYS / SUBS will require training in order to please me and serve me well, but this is a minimum you should have learned before you ever came to me. If you have a problem showing respect to me as a Domina, than perhaps you shouldn't even try to apply to me. Remember you are coming to me, not the other way around. At this point I don't even know you are alive!
#2: I do not enjoy nor require internet typing.
I do not find it personally necessary to hurt my eyes by reading things like Y/you, W/we etc. I am fully aware that I am the Goddess, and that I am in the position of power. In real time you would not speak like that to me, so don't bother using the energy you should be putting into serving, worshiping and tributing to me, for silly grammar errors. (I am originally from Germany, I have enough grammar and spelling errors from time to time for both of us, without you having to add to the confusion!) Speak and type in full sentences! I do not want to see "u" instead of "you". Show me that you have enough maturity and intelligence to speak correctly!
#3: I do require utmost honesty at all times. Which means don't ever lie to me and that includes making promises you have no intentions or way of holding. I am one of those rare individuals who does not find it necessary to blow sunshine up someones ass ever. So when I tell you something, it is already as good as done. DO NOT EVER MAKE ME DOUBT YOUR SINCERITY OR HONESTY. I will ask you personal questions, which will appear random to you, but are not. They are a way for me to get to know you better, and gaging how and if I wish to train you. Lies will only cost you dearly! Remember that you only get one chance to make a favorable impression, if you squander that because you think you can pull the wool over my eyes, you simply hurt yourself. I never look back and I don't have regrets over rejecting someones service. I do it for the best of both of us.
#4: I am a financial Mistress and serving me does require financial / monetary gifts!
Financial domination is a legit fetish and not a way for me to scam of unsuspecting males. I am very upfront about it, YES I WANT your money. I love taking the cash you had to struggle so hard to earn, just for my personal gain and enjoyment. I do it because I love the feeling of power it gives me, the feeling of helplessness and being pathetic it gives you, and because it turns me on! I AM NOT A SUGAR BABY, A INTERNET WHORE YOU CAN HIRE, OR A DAMSEL IN DISTRESS. If you are looking for any of those, please click this off now and LEAVE!
#5: Tributes are just that, they are YOUR WAY of showing me your worship, of begifting me in ways that make me smile, in serving me in a very tangible way. If you can't get that through your thick skull, you are having more problems then you realize. Since serving ME and making ME happy, should be your first Priority, it should not matter what I want the tribute for, what I am going to use MY MONEY for etc. All that should matter is that I am HAPPY, because a happy Goddess means a fullfilled slave. That doesn't mean I don't appreciate your service to me, nor does it mean I don't understand just how hard it is for you to make the money it takes to keep me satisfied. Matter of fact that is part of the turn on for me. I do understand it and I do very much appreciate your hard work in order to meet your financial service obligations to me. It shows me just how much you do adore me and place me on a throne of respect. It shows me you, that you do understand your position at my feet - to assure that I can relax enough and stay stress free enough in order to concentrate on training your properly as it should be. So think about it this way potential seeker. By making my welfare your priority, you assure yourself that I can place your training and spending time with you as one of my top priorities. A win/win for both of us!
#6: I expect you to be mature and know how much you are able to tribute to me safely.
Which means, I have no desire to ruin you financially! I am however not going to sit here and listen to your tales of woe, how you can't afford to tribute me, how you are so poor etc. Listen to me close, because I will only say so once! If you can't afford to pay your own bills, can't put food on your and your families table, then you have NO BUSINESS even showing interest in financial slavery or submission. Get your personal shit straightened out first, get secure financially, get cash on your debit / credit cards and then return. I have no use for a constantly broke slave. That is neither a turn on to me, nor good for you. Yes, I will push you hard at times to make you suffer just a little bit, make you have to work double hard to recover the money you may have spent on me when perhaps you shouldn't have, but I will do so only if I know you can recover from it savely in a short period of time. For example if you have a big check coming in, a tax refund coming your way, or you have something else financially heading your way which will cover it safely.
#7: I am not a powderpuff Princess, nor am I an unreasonable Mistress. I am a Goddess!
A divine Lady walking the earth, worthy of worship and service. Not because I said so, but because I have earned it over many many years of doing what I do. I am fully aware that the internet has changed the dynamics of servitude, but it has not changed the way I see myself. Do yourself a favor and google my name sometimes to see where all I am present. I DESERVE only the BEST, and that is all you should ever strive to give to me. YOUR PERSONAL BEST, which is always different for each individual. Giving your personal best takes dedication to your service to me at all times! It takes absolute honesty with yourself and with me. It takes your earnest desire to work hard for me and to accept my rules over you and my training I provide for you. It takes your desire to submit to ME and my will for you and not to try to push your wishes before mine.
#8: I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE longterm D/s relationships which last for years or better even a lifetime. Those are more then just fetish talk, constant excitement, but the meeting of two individuals minds who share a similiar or complimentary view of the lifestyle we love. I do cross include many, many fetishes into my financial domination. Building a solid D/s relationship takes time, but I will not allow you to use that for an excuse to simply just take up my time, without any show of worship (financially). I have outgrown the stupidity of falling for wankers (those who are never going to tribute, just looking for a quick jerk off, with no ability or intentions of going further then their little cocks) a long time ago. Remember a simple statement. I can not lose what I never had. That means to you; "Well you are losing your chance of me ever serving you, and I do have lots of money to spend on you", is so out of place with me. Because if you actually did have the cash, and wished to serve me, you would already offer a small token up to me. Meaning a small tribute to show your sincerity, to keep me interested in even getting to know you. That is required upon your introduction to me! I make it painfully easy to do so and it is not unreasonable or jaded of me to require it. It simply starts the relationship between us off correctly and doesn't start you on bad habits.

#9 Contracts are not something you should ever enter into lightly or without thought!

Sadly that happens entirely too often. For those of you who are interested in serving me longterm and actually become in due time my GOOD BOYS, you will have to undergo a 30 Day period of consideration. That is there for both of our welfare. Don't see it as a curse, see it as a blessing. Some of my subs never enter into contracts at all, but serve me loyally purely on their word of honor which they never fail in. I treasure devotion never forget that!
#10 Don't confuse any of my other BDSM areas and positions with financial domination.
To those of you who come to me hoping to be my little piggies, my puppets, my pets, my servants, my slaves etc. and claiming to be financial money cash slaves, that is exactly how you are treated. With other words, I am going to be taking your money from you. Mercilessly, at times greedily, cruely and just because I DESIRE to do so. Because it amuses ME! If you are loyal, eager, generous, submissive and understand your place, you will be treated well. If you act like an idiot, you are gone! It only takes a couple of fuck ups on your end or trying to top from the bottom for me to lose interest in you. I love spending time with my subs, I have the highest respect for them, but I do not waste my time with those who can not follow directions. I have no interest in babysitting you or being annoyed by you.

#11 You will need to take care of yourself, physically, mentally and emotionally.
I am not a welfare department, a emotional shrink who is here to counsel you over your fucked up marriages, because you could not tell your head from your ass when you got married. I am not interested in fixing broken toys, because you were burned by another Lady. Listen, we all got burned, I have a whole collection of burns thanks to boys who turned out to be "all talk and no action". I am no longer interested in wasting my time with that type of boy. And guess what, telling me you are different, doesn't mean anything to me. Proof it! Just as I will proof that I am not a hit and run Bitch.

Taking care of yourself physically, emotionally and mentally includes eating well, getting some excercise when you can (even if that means just a walk once in a while), adequate sleep so you can handle the physical requirements of training and your work.

It means asking me from time to time to be permitted to have some play money to go and have some fun of your own. Those are not unreasonable requests in my book and I will permit them to you if you have done well.

It also means speaking up respectfully if you have some problems at work and need a shoulder to "cry on" or to vent occassionally. Those who serve me loyally have found a wonderful "thinking things through" partner in me. I do get involved and I do want to hear about your work day etc. That is all part of having a relationship with a submissive. You need to be able to clear your mind of stress from time to time in order to serve me well. I understand that and honor that. That is what those casual conversations are for!

#12 If you can not afford to tribute a minimum of $100 weekly or $400 monthly, don't ask me about any of the positions which carry that requirement. I do have cheaper opportunities for you little small pocket bitches, but none of them are under $200 a month. So make sure I am within your budget. I am being more then generous of allowing you to got this cheap. But I understand vanilla obligations.

Most of my long term submissives spent anywhere from $500 on up a month on me and do so regularily. Which is one of the reasons they are so successful in their career. They understand that in order to keep a demanding Goddess like myself happy, you have to earn more cash and gain promotions in their work. It is a personal matter of pride for them to give that much to me and they always seek to do even more for me. It is a major turn on to them and a cause of feeling like a good man at my feet. Just think how wonderful it is for them to read when I praise them openly in my Blogs and forum posts. When they can see the pride I have in them shine through. Yes, it takes being a hard working MAN with GOALS to succeed to afford a Lady like myself. Something that has become sadly very rare these days. Guess that is why they are such treasures!

#13 Vanilla Obligations, personal life...guess what I have one of those too.
With other words, be respectful of those. I am not interested in Needy and ALL about me subs. I do need some personal time as well and I will take it. Don't bitch and complain when I do. Again, you will have plenty of time with me. Don't abuse what you are receiving, because you will suddenly find yourself with a lot less of my precious time, if you are ungrateful.

Those who have made themselves important and treasured by me speak to me daily even if it is only for a few moments if I am in need of some down time. They also have my cell phone number, my personal email address and in some cases even my home phone number on which they can reach me should an emergency arise. Just like a real time Mistress I am never completely unreachable.

I know that they would never abuse this and so when they do reach out when I need some downtime or am on vacation (during which they can always reach me via text message to my cell phone or email and are required to check in with me even) I know it is very important and I would never ignore them.

If you are going on vacation, have a family obligation coming up etc. I require for you to tell me ahead of time, so I don't worry needlessly about you. YES, I do worry about my good and loyal submissives and want to be sure they are ok and safe. Remember that since this is online, my subs come from all over the world. Which means I can't just run down the street and check on their welfare if I worry, I must depend on them to keep me posted on what is going on in their life.

I prefer daily check in messages, but that is something we can iron out if you are married or travel a lot.

 

 


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